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I'm moving! Yet again! Back to blogger. LJ works fine for me but I feel like going back to blogger again. Who knows, I might be back anytime soon. =)

Anyway, the new address is drinkjdcoke.blogspot.com .

Hope to see you there! =D

I uploaded pics to fb recently. This is what Jearl has to say.



HAHAHAHA! I died laughing.

She said, " CAN YOU TAKE PRIDE IN YOUR WORK " in the conversation.


LOL

Some friends are just bad influences to you.

Choices.

Its your choices that makes you who you are.
-Albus Dumbledore

A lot of times, you already know what your heart most yearn for or wants to do. Most of the time we choose to ignore it.

Life's filled with choices.

In fact I feel that we are spoit with choices.

AND...




And both are worth my time.

Drag me to hell definitely felt more like a comedy than a horror. There is no real "horror factor" I feel. Its just "funnily" gruesome. And the poor lead actress, Alison Lohman, had to eat a whole lot of shit, like Jearl said, in the movie. Watch it and you will know what I mean. I kinda missed maybe the first ten minutes but I doubt its important since I manage to run through the movie understanding most part of it.

I Love You, Man is a lot 'lighter'. Storyline easy to understand (I like this kinda movies - movies with simple stories).

Both are nice movies and they're definitely worth your time. =) Go catch them soon!

EVERYONE IS WHINING!

I shall whine a little too before I head to bad.

I HATE JUNE JULY AUGUST!


Good night! =D

http://www.webwombat.com.au/entertainment/movies/images/trailer-ghosts-of-girlfriends-past.jpg

Yeah and I watched this movie today not knowing what movie I'll be watching before hand (as usual if its Jearl and Van I'm watching it with).

This movie turned out not bad. Its got a nice storyline easy to understand (but definately unrealistic). Initially I thought that the progression of the movie was slow but it turned out fine in the end.

Nothing much what I don't like about the movie (other than the fact that the theater was damn cold and I had to sit on my hands to keep them warm). If I there is one thing that I must point out about this movie that sucked, its gonna be that its too unreal.

Since when would one be taught the both side of a story like how its like in the movies? Most of the time you only know a single-sided story  to whats happening. Is it for you to judge when you don't know what really happened? Most of the time, we judge based on a one sided point of view. Can't help it. Its a habit.

I might have a weird way of interpreting this movie but this is how I felt about the movie =)

I only realised that this movie has be out for quite some time already after watching the movie. Hmm.

Happy Fathers' Day.

but please stop pissing me off. =)

There are many things I'd wanna know. How things work, how to do different things, most importantly how people feel towards a certain issue/subject.

There is so many things in life I have yet to discover. I want to find out. Yet, many a time I was given answers like  "Its better that you don't know" and the stupid "Ignorance is bliss". F off and die lah. If its a secret, just tell me its a secret. If you don't feel like telling, just say so. Don't give this kind of shit, throwing in another excuse or 2 and then change the topic.
I feel that I have anchored the 'wrong' emotions onto my dad. Everytime he comes and talk to be, I'll be angered and be all grumpy. I can't really control. But honestly I feel that I am not totally at fault. The way he speaks, its as though he thinks he knows everything in the world. He thinks he knows whats best for me. He thinks he gets to decide what I do in MY LIFE.

No. If you think that I'm one of those teens who wants to get control of his life too much, I tell you I am not. Yes I agree that there are many things in life that I have not experienced and not know of yet. Its the way he tries to control my life. He would TELL ME to do this and that when I already have plans or know what to do already. No. He doesn't tell, he insist.

Just minutes ago, he came into my room,

Dad : "You should stop coming home late. Stop doing those 'unorthodox'  things outside. Quit dancing"

Going home late, I have nothing to say. True, I always come home late.

Unorthodox things. WTF was that for? I lead a very healthy young adult life and I don't think that there's a problem with it. I don't do anything against the law and had never got into trouble. What unorthodox things is he refering to.

Quit dancing. If he wants me to quit dancing becaue HE THINKS that dancing is unorthodox, he is truely unreasonable. I would have used more impactful and harsh words but no. He know nuts about what I'm doing. He know nuts about what I want. He has no right to tell me to quit dancing. Yes he is my father but no, he don't understand like how one should.

Yes I know its harsh, but its true. He tried and I give him credit for that but he never succeeded.




then again maybe I AM just like one of those kids who very much wants to get control of their life.

And ten years later, they might become this.

and when I told him I blogged about it, he googled for my blog and found the old one.

Ain't there many funny people like him out there?

My friend asked,

A : You in SAF BANDs? What instrument you play?
Me: Piccolo
A : Dragon ball Z?
Me : Go google whats a piccolo.
---moments later---
A : Dragon ball Gouku's fusion.
A : Oh a flute

Charlie the unicorn

Episode 1


Episode 2


Episode 3


I think I talk unicorn pretty well. "wu-muu, yum-yum, nush-lurbs, blea-blea-blea, wum-pu, wa-wa" in Episode 3. All so familiar. HAHs!

AND ONCE AGAIN I'D LIKE TO REMIND FRIENDS OUT THERE, UNICORNS EXIST!! =D

Source : FMyLife http://www.fmylife.com/?page=1

HAHA! Sometimes I mumble weird stuff. Fact is, I'm talking to my pet unicorn. I'm not weird okay.

And JEARL! UNICORN EXIST!

Time passes so fast. We have all grown so much in the blink of an eye. These are the cousins that I played with since young. Till now, we all are still very close. Well as least closer than most other families out there. Most of them only get to see their cousins once a year during CNY and thats about it? WE, on the other hand meet up on a regular basis. HAHA!




Top row from left to right:
Wei Qiang - O levels this year. Doing very well I'm sure. Bandsmen, flowing in him the musically incline blood that runs in the family. HAHs!
ME
Jin Peng - O levels as well. Studying in Catholic High. Good results is needless to say. Sports student excelling in Ping Pong.
Pei Ling - NUS grad, working in a Korean Construction Company. Fluent in Korean Language.
Ming Hui :- Doing a Diploma in Business IT in SP. Damn hardworking chap.
Bottom row left to right:
Guan Soon - My brother! Enlisting soon. Completed Diploma in Engineering!
Xin Yi - NYJC doing chinese Lit. OMG CHINESE LIT! Who can take that other than my lil cousin xinyi!
Cai Hua - Doing Chemistry in NTU. Clarinetist. Music runs in our blood!
Ivy - JJC . Tennis player. Must be playing damn well too lah. Its either sports or music lah (our blood)!



Coming to the point that my brother is enlisting, HE IS ENLISTING TOMORROW! Much as I don't show, I'm pretty SUPREMELY worried for him. I hope he can cope with NS life well. I won't be there to send him much as I want to, I wish him all the best!


OCS parade these few days. Pretty tiring. I shall TRY TO sleep earlier today!

This year is a very special year. Most of my peers (myself too actually) turn 21 this year. There's a lot of 21st parties to attend, lots of things to help out.

Recently (not so recent actually, somewhere in MAY), 2 of my closer friends celebrated their 21st. Benjamin Lim and Kiap How. We had quite a lot of fun at the parties.

Ben celebrated his birthday on 9th May at Tapestry, Civil Service Club Bukit Batok. Its a wine bar which, doesn't really feels like one. Maybe its just me but its not really the kinda place I want to have a drink there. Nevertheless, it makes a fantastic EVENT/FUNCTION room. I must say I'm quite impressed with the facilities provided. Mics (wireless), projector, sound system etc.



If you are interested to hold an event/function with Tapestry, or even just to find out more, you can check out http://www.csc.gov.sg/HTML/Bukitbatok/bb_winebar.html There are some pictures there but its best you go down yourself to have a look.

I don't know where he got his AWESOME cake from. Its delicious!


This is the T shirt design that I did for him. NICE EH?!? =D



We were colour coded. Kiap's yellow, I'm green, Kiat's blue and Yide purple I think. =)





As For Kiap, he held his party at Gold Coast Chalet a week later on 16 May. Its was supposed to be a McDonald's Birthday Party but he changed his mind. I even wanted to rent a McD uniform to surprise him at the party! Lucky he informed me just in time. HAH!

The Party was just as fun anyway! Its kjnd of a waste cause I can't stay over the first night (friday). I had NDP rehearsals in camp the next day. I stayed till very late on saturday night though. It was a barbeque party and of course we had lots of BBQ FOOD!

Felt guilty that I didn't do much. I wanted to help barbeque but his friends were too helpful and insisted that they BBQ for us will do.

IT WAS A FUN NIGHT ANYWAY!




HIS CAKE WAS EQUALLY AWESOME!!!!


He gave me this for thanking me help plan his initial McD party! ITS DAMN CUTE.

Thats the end of the MAY 21st parties that I attended. Along the way there was Jon Oh's but its 20th. =)

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY PEOPLE!

There is a first step to everything in life.

I hope this step that I'm gonna take will be a right one.

I too will go away one day.

DISCLAIMER:
Am not gonna specifically mention what this MLM that I am talking about, is. Don't wanna get myself into trouble one day when "MLM" reads my entry and decide to sue me for defamation. It could be a person, an organization, a particular company, an object, an animal, just any piece of shit on the street, or it can even not be anything at all. Its up to the reader to decide what he/she wants MLM to be, AND IT WILL HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ME!

MLM IS A SCAM!!

Its all sweet talks and tr*ckery. I've been a victim of MLM. They've chea*ed a relatively huge sum of mo*ey (at that point of time) from me.

First MLM sca*s you into making you think how easy it is to make mo*ey from MLM's bus***ss. Then, MLM sca*s you into bu*ing their ridiculously over*riced pro*ucts. You are most likely to have insufficient mo*ey, so MLM will make you borrow from your very close friends or relatives. Here's how MLM got me into doing it.

How the MLM works is MLM make you se** their over*riced pro*ucts and you will be earning a huge commi**ion from the sa*e. There's more to it but there is too much for me to explain.

The MLM that I delt with deals with healthcare pro*ucts. MLM claim that the healthcare pro*uct promotes blood circulation. MLM constantly remind me how good their pro*uct is. MLM makes you b*y one for yourself to "try" and also to support the pro*uct that you will be se**ing through them.
1) MLM make you decide who you would want to borrow the mo*ey from (I called a very close friend)
2) MLM ma*es you tell a "lie" to your friend/relative. MLM "advise" you to tell your friend/relative that you need mo*ey urgently (MLM: Its urgent because you need the mo*ey fast in order to get the healthcare pro*uct asap).
3) MLM ma*es you "lie" again, by saying that you need the mo*ey for some health related problem that your direct family member is currently experiencing (MLM: If you don't get the healthcare pro*uct for your family member now, it "MIGHT" become a health hazard to your family member. Every second not using MLM's "miracle pro*uct" counts. You never know when they might "go" and the miracle pro*uct of MLM "MIGHT" make the difference).
4) MLM ma*es you ask how much mo*ey can your friend/relative lend (as much as possible). (The friend I called is able to lend me enough to buy the healthcare pro*uct)
5)MLM make you promise your friend that you'll p*y your friend back in install*ents asap, possibly within 2 months. (MLM: You will start ear*ing high commi**ions when you start se**ing MLM's pro*ucts)
6) MLM m*ke you tell your friend not to tell anyone about this. (MLM: Necessary as MLM don't wish your other friends to worry about you. Actually MLM just don't want your other friends to know that you are borrowing mo*ey and starts shunning away from you. You'll need to pro*ote MLM's pro*uct to them)
7) Now you're in DEBT

Throughout the process, I felt very reluctant and forced. A lot of pressure was put on me. MLM seem to have a systematic way to ma*e people do according to what MLM says. Reason being its "Tried and tested" on a thousand others I guess? I don't know why I comply to MLM at that point of time.

MLM promises that you will be able to ear* back the mo*ey within 2 months. MLM promise that their pro*uct is in demand and MLM have a database of a pool of target cus*omer to se** MLM's pro*uct from.

After bu*ing the pro*uct to "try" for myself, I was given training to how to go about se**ing the pro*uct.

Then I was told to write down a list of family members, including my uncles and aunts etc. Why? Because that's the target cus*omer that MLM promised. In other words I will have to se** the pro*ucts to my relatives. WHAT THE FUCK right?!?!

I refused to do it. This has gotten too far I told myself. I refuse to se** a pro*uct that I have no confidence in to my relatives. I told MLM to give me 6 months to try out the pro*uct and if it really works, then I'll start se**ing.

Thats not the end to the story. MLM insisted and tried their best to convince me to start se**ing. MLM sent several others to come try to talk me into doing it, (at least 20 I think) but I was persistent. I stuck to my decision. I already had suspicion to the way MLM works.

I promised to contact and get back to MLM once I find out how good MLM's pro*uct is. But I NEVER got back.


I have never shared this to anyone else other than my bestest friends, Jia Jun and Jearlene.

Jearlene is my blood.

JiaJun was the stupid friend who len* me the mo*ey. I'm awefully thankful to him. He agreed to len* me the mo*ey without any questions asked. All he asked was am I okay, do I need help and where and when I need they mo*ey.

This experience made me realise how lucky I am to have FONG JIA JUN as my friend. Till today, even when we're no longer seeing each other everyday (he was my poly classmate, buddy, gay partner), we still occassionally meet up for dinner.

A lesson learned and a good friend realised at an extremely high price. But its worth it. =)


This post is totally gay but WHATEVER!

Funny clip.

I FUCKING HATE MY DAD.

He just love to piss me off. He love to send mum to get into trouble with me. Cause he thinks I favour her more. He don't understand that it only seem that way cause he's just too irriatating. Too Egoistic, too full of himself. Mum's different. Innocent and naive.

I love my dad but I hate it when he piss me off just to try get my attention.

Yeah I don't hate him. I just need to rant.

I bought the Polaroid camera Jearl wanted for he birthday. I hope she'll like it. Its in mint condition.

And now I'm looking for my own Polaroid, and a Vintage film camera. I was talking to Kat today and she totally spurred a whole new interest in photography in me. The things she told me today reminded me of the Photography elective I took when I was in poly.

Its amazing how cameras can capture the most precious moments in your life. The one and only device that can captured and trap time (into a photograph).

There is still so much more to learn for me, in photography, AND LIFE.

Then I came to realise that sometimes, the newer things in life doesn't always mean that they've made better. Comparing phones made years ago. I'm pretty sure that the Nokia 3310 will be able to survive occasional drops and still be able to work. Try dropping your newer models for the same amunt of time and I guarentee that you'll need to send it to service.

Think now I'll just go on a retro spree. Maybe I'll live happier.